Anchor
Weights In Life:
When you hear the word weight, most if not
all, know and understand just what a weight entails. There’re many types of
weights in life. Some people use weights to ensure they are gaining the right
amount of use out of them. When weights are used in this manner, it has a
tendency to build muscles within the body. Others may allow weights to settle
upon them and it may take years to remove it. When weights are used in this
manner, it has a tendency to anchor you, right in the place you're at in life.
First, what happens when we allow people or
things to become weights in our life? The answer is: our movement becomes
slowed or we cease to move along our desire pathway in life. When we are
anchored, no matter how we think of moving forward, it will never happen
because of the weights that are attached to us.
On a
different note, I would like to point out that weights can come in many
different sizes. The bigger they are (problems) the more force you’ll have to
used in order to destroy such a (weighty) relationship. The whole point in
being able to pinpoint those that are weighing you down in life is to, liberate
yourself from that point of restraint. When this is done, freedom is realized:
What are
Weights?
·
Dream
killers
·
Negative
people
·
People
that abuse you
·
People
that speak down to you
When you have a desire to move forward in
life, then, you must understand that, this desire is yours and yours to protect
solely. There are people in this world,
sometimes that are close to us, that will take your desires and annihilate them
simply because they may not agree with it. Never allow dream killers to
manifest nor keep attachments to you during your life. Dream killers are big
anchors.
Next, there are those that are simply negative.
It’s hard enough to stay consistent with
what you desire to do and where you desire to go in life, but when you have
someone in your life that badgers you constantly, …they can be considered a
weight problem. You must understand this. The only reason that people are
willing to speak (curse) in a negative way towards others, is because they are
themselves negative. When you are a negative individual, one of your sole
purposes in life is to condemn others. Negative people condemn others, because
they themselves feel condemn. This is a major weight and negative people
utilized this well.
Onward, never settle for abuse. Abuse
itself, is a massive weight. It ‘s massive because it has the ability to
refract into so many different directions. Some of the ways that abuse can
anchor you in life may deal with the physical, mental, emotional and even
spiritual. Also, when this type of weight exist within your life for a long
period of time, it can create self destruction in many different ways. Be
careful.
Finally, people that speak down on you
is a weight that can easily be removed, but you have to be willing to lift it.
I’ve seen this first hand. The tricky part about this weight is that, those
that are anchoring you down, may live in
close proximity. This makes the anchor that much more difficult to remove. Why?
Because many have established relationships
with people that may anchor them. This can easily cause you to see, only what you chose
to see within the relationship. When this happens, you can easily overlook the very thing that is anchoring you
down.
So, always be cautious, move constantly (towards your goal) and stay free
of the weights of this world. They are only in place to put strain on your life.....
Christopher Ty
http://www.christopher-ty.com/
