Never Hearing the Pain....

     Have you ever been told the saying, "you're so stupid, dumb, worthless, ain't good enough, etc" by someone else that you felt career for you? If so, guess what? They are Wrong. It is always painful to hear any type of verbal abuse, but more importantly channeling such pain words into the pits of no return is the key to overcoming it.
     First, you must understand that your worth unto the world is priceless. I'll repeat that..Your worth unto the world is priceless! Once you realize that your worth is not predicated upon what someone else with a negative outlook may have to say, then you are on your way to being liberated. It doesn't matter if the person with a negative outlook is your spouse, mom, friend, or anyone else,..but the most important thing is how you go about separating yourself from such Negative words.
    Secondly, understand your worth. Understanding your worth may entail (you) mentally telling yourself just how important you are to yourself. All to many times, people put others before themselves, but this is the wrong order. The appropriate order is placing yourself at the top. The
reason in which you put yourself at the top is because, if you are torn down or worn down over time
by abusive people, then you will become depleted of the good in which you truly possess.
    Third, never believe a lie. Our emotions are truly elusive and sometimes we give others the right to control our emotions, but don't hear the pain. In order to overcome allowing others to tear you down, you must first start Loving yourself. The way you start loving yourself is by paying yourself attention, avoiding negative people, caring for yourself and even praying and being thankful for your mere existence in this world. Above all things, you must understand that you are such an important asset in your own life and anyone else that can't see you in that way can only be considered a liability in your life. So, never take on liabilities because they are always in the negative.
    Finally, never allow others the right to dump their negative outlook into your life. Those that are involve in speaking to others in a denigrating way are themselves very troubled and emotionally
damaged people. They only feel a sense of gratification when they speak condescending to others but don't allow it. Remember, you are someone special, unique, kind and ever evolving. Just put your words into practice and go forward without hearing the Pain....
    Always Believe In You even When Others May Not...

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